If everything is mutual, it’s Good Love

In sex and love, everything should be mutual. The desire, the feelings, the sexual attraction, tenderness, and care.

You can only truly enjoy sex and love when there's reciprocity between both people, when both desire the same things and want a similar type of relationship.

If there's mutual respect, equal freedom, and rights, if responsibilities are shared equally, if we relate to each other on a horizontal level, as equals, we can fully embrace and live a beautiful love story.

Relationships where love is not mutual cause us a lot of suffering. When we give our all, and the other person takes advantage of our generosity and vulnerability by receiving love and care without giving it back, it becomes emotional exploitation.

If love is not mutual, it's emotional exploitation.

If care is not mutual, it's domestic exploitation.

If sexual desire is not mutual, if pleasure is not mutual, it's sexual exploitation and violence.

If we wait for a romantic miracle, we will suffer greatly. So, it's best to end the relationship as soon as you realize it's not mutual, whether you're in love or not.

This way, you won't suffer, and you won't make your partner suffer either.

Always remember:

It's Good Love if everything is mutual.

Coral Herrera Gómez